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sorry, I couldn't blindly buy this on Blu-ray
I don’t think any apology is necessary. My personal opinion is that blind buys are unnecessary for new release titles that are easily and inexpensively assessable via digital rental and/or subscription streaming. I only recommend blind buys when that is the only method of viewing a film.
I suppose, looking back on it, we were taking the film way too seriously, and as a result, we were often horrified and depressed by what we saw.
I don’t think that’s an incorrect response - what we see in the film is both horrifying and depressing.
I think there is a lot of black comedy in it as well, but it’s undoubtedly a dark film about two people descending into misery and madness.
I liked it a lot, in part because it covered a subject that isn’t addressed in film very often - the loss of friendship. In my life, I’ve had two instances where what had been very close friendships vanished without warning, almost like unexpected breakups in romantic relationships, as seen in the film. One of them was where I was “dumped,” and the other where I was the “dumper” - in both cases, for reasons I both do and don’t understand, the thing had just run it’s course.
But it’s not something that people really talk about and so there isn’t really a framework to deal with the lingering feelings that may result. What do you do when a lifelong friend decides he’s had enough of you? What do you do when you realize you’ve had enough of someone else?
I really appreciated that the film took on this subject matter as it’s something I don’t think we really talk much about.